These same Patterns

I'm pretty sure that a lot of people realise that, a whole majority of us follow a similar patterns in life. These patterns that are usually triggered by events that occurs in our daily lives. We go down the positive lane of life when good things happen, and otherwise for bad things that happens.

I have encountered people who has gone through similar patterns which is triggered by a particular event. I observed the number of things that happens after the trigger and the outcome is somewhat; similar.

So I knew what to expect, when another person I run into goes through the same event. I knew what to do and what not. Although similar, I always take account of the fact that no one is ever the same thus would expect the slightest difference in their patterns and adapt to it. This does not always go well, majority of the time it did.

I studied my own patterns. I observed how I would react to things that goes on around me. Like anyone i would react positively or negatively depending on what it is thats happening. For the bad things, slowly I would come to realise what I usually go through and slowly develop a way to prevent myself from repeating mistakes that I make as these things occur.

Some people may not bother to look at the bigger picture of their own lives. They would be blinded by the events that happened, and just let things repeat itself. A never-ending cycle without even realising it.

I would suggest anyone who even bother to read this, to reflect your past lives. To think about the things that happened more than once and how you would react to them. Ask yourself, could you have reacted in a better way? what are your alternatives? Take a bit of time to think about this as the things you do would normally affect or involve other people that you meet or know already.

We can always change to be a better person everyday. You need to believe that you can do it, and actually do it.